Embracing life’s second chance

“Not everyone’s got a voice”

Amandda Kao Amandda Kao

Kryptonite Part 1: The End of the Table

After a stroke, crowds feel different. A simple seating choice at a birthday party reveals how invisible disabilities reshape energy, identity, and social dynamics.

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Shared Scars

A return to Newcastle leads to a powerful conversation between two old friends, bonded not by the past, but by surviving life-changing illness and learning to live fully again.

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Brain good, Hand bad

A stroke survivor reflects on rehab memories - including a well-meaning but hilarious gift mix-up that perfectly captured the early confusion of recovery.

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The Rehab Box

Cleaning out my early stroke rehab box became a quiet moment of reflection - a reminder of the boring, frustrating work that rebuilt my speech, movement, and independence

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Touching The Sky

A stroke survivor’s journey from a Melbourne concert hall to the high country of Victoria, inspired by The Man from Snowy River and the resilience it celebrates.

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When Worlds Collide

A chance connection through work reunites two childhood friends after twenty years

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Singing Through Stroke

From slurring like you’re drunk, to mixing up word order so sentences don’t make sense, through to not being able to speak at all

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House of Cards

Stroke rewires the brain in many ways. We survivors often become more emotional…

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More doctors

A chance encounter with two doctors in Adelaide led to an unexpected conversation about stroke, advocacy, and the meaning of disability.

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Spiritual Awakening After Stroke

I have just completed my first weekend camp as an Assistant Leader in the Survival Team for Scouts Victoria—120 kids, 12+ troops, and 40 leaders from across Western Victoria.

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A New Model

Stroke survivor and advocate Michael shares how a grassroots “local militia” model is helping rebuild stroke recovery services in regional Victoria after funding cuts.

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When the Words Aren’t Yours

Stroke survivor Michael shares how aphasia causes unintended swearing, the challenges of being misunderstood, and the importance of acceptance in recovery.

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Coffee with a Collingwood Giant

Stroke survivor Michael shares a light-hearted encounter with AFL player Mason Cox, made possible by the watchful eye of his German Shepherd, Mori.

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When the Sirens Pass

A stroke survivor reflects on how the sound of an ambulance brings back memories of the day everything changed

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Three Years On

On the third anniversary of his stroke, Michael reflects on the people, moments, and lessons that have shaped his journey—and how disability brought unexpected purpose.

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Metro vs Regional

Exploring the urgent need for better ongoing stroke rehab access in regional Victoria, following my visit to a recovery centre in Cowes with the SAV team.

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Comfort zone

A stroke survivor shares how helping Scouts with survival skills pushed him beyond his comfort zone—and brought unexpected joy and connection.

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The Mirror

A gym encounter triggers a powerful reminder of life after stroke—adaptation, frustration, and the importance of communication and self-awareness.

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They’re disabled like me

Rehab isn’t just about therapy—it’s about connection. Michael Maher shares how humour and conversations with fellow patients make the journey easier.

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